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I totally fucked it up

Well, I'm glad that sort of thing never ever happens to me...it must be awful!

Awww, Kats...xxx...<bless, hugs>

Yeah, feels good to be flawless, doesn't it?



Stay strong, Kat, I belive you're a girl that can pick yourself up...

Dahls wrote:Yeah, feels good to be flawless, doesn't it?

I'm sure it must; well, fairly sure, anyway.

Irony is a dangerous tool...but I'm sure Katka knows we're all wishing her well.

So sorry to hear that Kat.
Any chance of a reconciliation?
Stay strong, maybe all is not lost.

I'm sorry to hear that, kat. If you want to talk about it, you'll get sympathetic ears on here.

You well know that by me here started a story such as Elin and Agnes. I really didn't and don't want fall in some film's character ''pigeonhole'' But this what happened is like cut from the story in FA.
I'm so sad already 7 days. Because I thought, that that girl wait for me. I was so close before finish my study in college. I had to finish it. I had to do the big final examination and I couldn't really couldn't come to her. Visited her ( if we live in the same town (Brno), I had to be in the village with my parents).
She gradually distance of me. She stopped gradually sending a message, questions, and a emoticons of love. It was in the time when approached time of the examination. I felt that something happened between us. But she nothing wrote to me! She held on me all the time that it all in right!
Then came my school's examination, which I done of half (unfortunately history of fine art I must do till in August ) I asked her directly what happened.
She wrote that it is probably not fit to each other and that all she is closing between us. She fundamentally refuses to give me a second chance.
I therefore begged her for forgiveness, I wrote her everything what I felt to her. I sent her several letters which explains everything. Because there was a mistake! She think that I does not matter to her, but that's not true.
I made a few mistakes, but not so serious to she decided ending without me. The mistake is that we had seen before month. But now I want to her at least an explanation.

I really don't know what I should to do.

Sounds like you have already done everything, Kat.

It does, also, sound like there's something you're not being told...but you can't force someone to trust you.

Real love is very big on trust; I think they are practically the same thing.

However, given the disastrous history of my own relationships, perhaps you should just ignore everything I say.

Feel better soon
xxx

But I have feel that I should fighting and prove...

That will be my vote as well.

With a little time and effort, I hope you're able to restore the relationship.
Good luck with everything, Kat.

Dahls wrote:...With a little time and effort, I hope you're able to restore the relationship...

Wise words there Kat.
Best not to rush into anything.
Just let her know you're willing to talk to her whenever she wants.
Hopefully a little time will help her find her way back to you.

Good luck.



I'm sure Agnes also wishes the best of luck to you.

I'm sure we all do.

Life can be such a pain in the arse sometimes, can't it?

"You can't hurry Love - no, you just have to wait
She said, 'Love don't come easy - it's a game of give and take'
How long must I wait - how much more can I take
Before loneliness will cause my poor heart to break?"

- Martha Reeves and the Vandellas, er, I mean Diana Ross and the Supremes

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"The first ten million years were the worst...and the second ten million years, they were the worst, too.

In the third ten million years, things got really bad.

After that, I went into a bit of a decline..."

- Marvin and the Paranoid Androids

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There is a ship, and it sails the sea,
It's loaded deep as deep can be;
But not so deep as this love I'm in -
I know not if I sink or swim"

- 'The Water is Wide', folk song

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- Healing tears, from Sinéad

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xxx

So imagine that her excuses. First, it was that she probably still in love with her ​​first love. Then she gave before 3-4 days ad on a dating site where she seeks true love. Yesterday, I wrote with her. She wrote that ''is now calls a friend'' and ''in this'' moment she have not time for me even for depreciate . And five minutes late from the ''friends'' become new girlfriend You understand? And she writes with totally peace that she met someone amazing and that is happy with her as ever. And they to know together for 14 days already and just longer knew before. So when I asked her about a week ago that if ''here'' someone different which changed for me and she claimed that no, she lied me
she wrote already before, that she is very emotional and impulsive. That one month she's something of yourself give to someone and next month she can break loose

I'm totally stupid that I believed her

If she lied to you then maybe she wasn't all that serious to begin with.
Sorry to say it Kat, but it sounds like you should just chalk this one up to "experience", and move on.
Whatever happens in the future with or without her, will happen of its own accord.

Time will heal your wounds and you can be assured that you will be stronger "next time."
All the very best of luck to you.
Skål.

Sorry, Kat. Yeah, it sounds like you may be better off without, alas.