gay - bi - lesbian

[Anny]

Hey!

I think there are a few gay, lesbian or bi people here so I'd like to add just something that is in my mind... (At least because I'm bisexuell myself...)

Some people say, natually we are all bisexuell and I agree with that opinion! I think it's true because when you're in love with someone you should love him/her because of his/her inner things (my english... I hope you'll understand it...) I mean feelings and character of the person who you love. So I think when you look at the soul you can not really part between male and female so I think what you should love (when you love someone) is the person's soul! Neither the body nor the sex (most people doesn't know that) I mean most people think it's so impossible to love a girl as a girl and love a boy as a boy that they not even nitice, when they like someone who is same sex than they are, very very much (more than a friendship)

There where times when I thought I'm lesbian but now I think one should be open to both sides (it's a fact that you don't know how IT is befor you've done it!) Now I feel that I'm real bi because I think I'm going to fall in love with a girl again... (I don't know why, but I had to think of her when I saw Agnes...) For me it was like watching the film knowing "yes, that's definetly what I am!" I've acepted things just as they are!!

So, please tell me you opinions! And tell me also if you're bi (gay, lesbian)!

I'd like to talk to some other people who think the same way like me! So please answer!

Bye, Anny

[Sphinx]

You're right at some point....I want to finally fall in love with somthing that breathes and has at least 2 legs...because I'm usually in love with songs and movies,but I've never been in love with any human..that sucks!But that's normal for me I'm Aquarius

[Narcissus]

I've been in love with first a girl, then a boy, and as my signiature suggests --> I am bisexual and proud of it!

[Bomberpilot]

I've been in love with first a girl, then a boy, and as my signiature suggests --> I am bisexual and proud of it!

That's pretty cool!

[Valki 96]

(I'm male) I agree with you Anny. So I don't know if I'm a bi, 'cause I was in love with a girl, but never with a boy. But I have some experience in kissing with boys . And I really feel, that sometime...

[JustMe90]

hi,
im bi, too. i think its cause i cant chose. sometimes i thin: yeah, im sure that im lesbian. but then the things change and i think: if im a lesbian i will never gonna love a boy again. and i dont wanna have to chose. i mean maybe im not gonna love a boy again in my whole life, and maybe i will. its kind of not wanting to lose 1 of the 2 oportunities. hope you understand my strange english
so i agree with you, anny

[freee]

is everyone here gay?
im heterosexual

[*blond*]

ohh ohh!! i am! . and Sphinx i'm an aquarian too. commitment issues all the way!
sometimes i think to myself 'hmm i could be bi, or i could be just sick of liking this one girl!' but i think of it as eg. a girl and think she's good looking and i'd date her if the situation arose. and with a guy if i just think 'he's good looking, but i wouldnt date him'. if you get what i mean. i can still admire a guy's looks, and not want to go out with him. but every girl i see i think 'shit! i wana go out with her!!'
god i am making no sense what so ever
i hope you get my point..

[Sphinx]

I get You *blond* That's no as complicated as You think!
and freee not everyone I think...but does it matters?It doesn't matter to me

[JustMe90]

since i saw the film im like: "maybe im not lesbian, couse agnes and elin loves each other so much... i dont know if im ever gonna be abled to feel love as intensifly as they do" but i think im still lesbian, or maybe bi, couse on the other hand i think that it would be more difficult to feel such a love for a guy. i agree with what *blond* said.

[Sphinx]

You shouldn't think this way...we all feel differently and we all fall in love in a different way...I bet when you find somebody boy or a girl and you'll fall in love it will be beautiful and perfect,better than what you can see on the screen
take care

[JustMe90]

thanx but the film has a happy end. so if it will happen the same way it wont be bad at all

[fjordur]

well I honestly couldnt ever imagine to have a relationship with a boy , but I must say Im very much able to say whether a boy should be considered as handsome or not, many boys dont even dare to do that in their thaughts.
i absolutely prefer girls, im not saying this to myself to escape from some truth or something
i think im 92 percent hetero and 8 percent the rest
and i like small girls !
and i dont like big boned ones , but there are many men who do

[Sphinx]

There is an unconfirmed theory that each girl is a bit bi because mostly the first experiences at sexual level that they gain happends among their sex.I think that is true...partly but true.

[*blond*]

haha Sphinx, are you speaking from experience ? well i agree with you anyway, from experience.
i also agree with JustMe90- i would love if i had that ending to my love story.